The act of suicide is incredibly complex, and also a vastly misunderstood concept. We all have to take into consideration the utter despair and helplessness that these individuals are suffering from, and recognize a common statement from suicide survivors is that they didn't want to die, but rather.... end the pain.
We need a greater understanding on how we can help them. And no... the concept of taking them to a war torn country to see other people suffering greatly isn't a solution.
As parents, we are neither ashamed or angry at Jaida for ending her pain. We are profoundly sad, and miss her fiercely, yet... also proud of the brave way she fought, and deeply touched that she also found the ability to help others that were struggling. One friend let us know that Jaida helped her when she was in need, and after Jaida's passing shared with us words Jaida had spoken to her.... "The world needs to change... Not you".
The stigma surrounding suicide and mental health needs to be shattered. It's the single greatest obstacle to individuals reaching out for help, and engaging in long term therapy.
